or whatever the socially acceptable way is to say “the horrors ruined the vibe”

There was a time in my life when I thought adulthood meant buying cute throw pillows and knowing how taxes worked.

That was before I learned things.
Terrible, awful, character-building things. 😌

Now I can’t even sit peacefully in a waiting room because my brain immediately starts doing investigative journalism.

That lady coughed twice.
The receptionist looks dead inside.
The fluorescent lights are humming like they know state secrets.
Someone’s marriage is definitely ending in the parking lot.

I can feel it.

When I was younger, the world felt softer somehow. Simpler.
People were just people.
Love was love.
Friendships lasted forever.
Adults knew what they were doing.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Anyway. 💀

Now I know adults are literally just exhausted teenagers with lower back pain and passwords they can’t remember.

I know corporations don’t care about us.
I know some people apologize only because they got caught.
I know “family” is not automatically synonymous with “safe.”
I know grief changes your personality like a damn software update nobody asked for.

And honestly?
Rude.

Because once you know certain things, you can’t unknow them.
That’s the scam of growing up.

You start seeing patterns everywhere.
You hear the tone shift in someone’s voice before the argument even starts.
You notice when affection becomes obligation.
You can tell when someone’s “I’m fine” has a funeral behind it.

It’s like gaining emotional night vision against your will.

And the worst part?
Sometimes I miss the version of me who believed people meant what they said.
The version of me who didn’t overanalyze every silence like it was a FBI case file.

I miss watching movies without immediately predicting the betrayal arc.
I miss trusting people without needing twelve business days and supporting documentation.
I miss existing before experience turned me into a raccoon digging through emotional garbage at 2 AM searching for “closure.” 🦝

But maybe there’s another side to it too.

Because even if knowing more made the world heavier…
it also made it more honest.

Now when I love someone, I know what it costs.
When I stay kind, it’s intentional.
When I trust somebody, it actually means something.

It’s not innocence anymore.
It’s choice.

And maybe that’s stronger.

Still though…
I’d like one single day of factory reset brain activity.
Just one.

I wanna look at a red flag and think:
“Aw. A carnival.” 🎪

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